To Catch the Flame Means to Care
July 27, 2010 in Assisted Living, CCRC, Home Care / Home Health, Hospice, Independent Living, Nursing Home / Rehab / SNF by Julia Soto Lebentritt
To catch the flame brings to mind the Olympic flame carried by runners. In 2004, the first global torch relay was undertaken in a journey that lasted 78 days. The power of catching and passing the flame in the Olympic torch relay is regularly enacted to facilitate communication in many expressive-arts group therapy warm-ups. The torch is passed as a koosh ball, balloon, peacock feather or bean bag in a circle or between partners. Words are added like the participants’ names or other calls and responses.
This exercise serves to break through the disconnection among group members. Everyone responds to an immediate task like runners in a torch relay. As we catch the object we emotionally respond and relay the action to another member of the group passing on the need to respond to one another.
In these exercises we are always ready to respond (that is, care) because we may be relayed to again and again at any moment. We cannot throw to another person one time only and then sit down to watch the clock saying, “That’s all you’ll get from me!” Caring, caregiving, caregetting require a constant interactive readiness to respond.
Just as the light of the torch once kindled by the sun must be kept alive by the global runners, every day you are dancing the job of caregiving like a runner in a torch relay, keeping your eye on the need to keep the flame of your care burning by receiving and giving in the tradition of caregiving.
Make the purpose of your caregiving activities:
- Not to kill time but to make time live;
- Not to keep yourself and other persons occupied but to keep yourself and others refreshed;
- Not to offer an escape from life or mechanical maintenance of life but to provide a discovery of life.
Breathe life into each moment and create a dynamic interchange with the world.
By Julia Soto Lebentritt. A published poet and producer, Julia Soto Lebentritt is author of As Long as You Sing, I’ll Dance: Using lullabies in activities for older adults to be released autumn 2010. She is a Bereavement Facilitator at the Community Hospice of Rensselaer County.








